If you tell someone they can do whatever they want with you, and they proceed to have sex with you, is that rape? Serious question. Not trolling. Looking for thoughtful dialogue here. Would that directive not be the same as consent? Obviously of course if he withdrew/didn't consent and she still proceeded that is… » 11/28/14 2:20pm 11/28/14 2:20pm

YES. My husband thankfully doesn't do this, and there is ONE man I work with who never assumes he knows more than the women he works with. And he's extremely intelligent and knowledgeable about lots of stuff. He's just not a dickbag. It's refreshing. » 11/13/14 2:56pm 11/13/14 2:56pm

Aaaaaand here I am again this year. Another disappointing anniversary. I love my husband but he just doesn't know how to turn it out. :( He suggested that we both try to make ourselves look good for one another, and he cooked dinner but brought it to the living room to eat. No candles, no table set. And no gifts or… » 11/01/14 7:34pm 11/01/14 7:34pm

I have a hard time buying "Look At Me", as much fun as it is to read/be scared by. If the person was behind the writer, and there was a window in front of the writer, and it was night time, wouldn't they see the intruder when they looked at the window? » 11/01/14 1:17pm 11/01/14 1:17pm

I've worked with a ton of ten-year-olds with various behavioral/psychiatric disorders. Children of ten are generally very cognizant of their actions. Perhaps he's been shaped by his environment, but given that he has done this and admitted to it without any apparent remorse, he's apt to do something like this (or… » 10/14/14 7:30pm 10/14/14 7:30pm